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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-20 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2606 ]


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Re: Presumptions about relationships and their "purpose" really piss me off.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-21 09:47 am (UTC)(link)
"you didn't like what he was doing"

Actually I wrote a huge post about "how do I fix my own fuck-up", but anyway. You're right, I did not like what he was doing during that fight, that specific weekend.. That doesn't mean I dislike what he does in general. I even said in my original post that it was atypical. I also, in the very title of that post, indicated I was interested in fixing it, not raging at him, so I don't know exactly which part of your posting you find inconsistent.

I'm not sure how that's backpedaling or even hard to understand. It's like you could have a great job, but have one shitty colleague who annoys you, but still call it a great job when people ask, because the general picture is. He scans over F!S sometimes, but if I though he'd delve into the comments, I never would have posted here in the first place.

>but I'd be just as miserable elsewhere.

This is entirely in your own head. You made up this delusion where I'm miserable in my relationship while I'm not, like another anon made it sound like I'm pretty much halfway being a battered wife, which is utter nonsense. Also it's not defeatist language, it's an actual preference. I find immaturity attractive up to a certain point. I don't know how much clearer I can put it. Obviously, I realize the trait has down sides. It's like some women go for men who do ridiculously high risk sports.