[ SECRET POST #2607 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2607 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Shaun of the Dead]


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13. http://i.imgur.com/Lnyxfbz.jpg
[link for porny, doujinshi]


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14. [SPOILERS for DRAMAtical Murder]






















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15. [WARNING for rape]



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16. [WARNING for rape, pedophilia]



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17. [WARNING for molestation]

[Gatchaman Crowds]


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18. [WARNING for dub-con]



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19. [WARNING for molestation]
http://i.imgur.com/tm7SaaX.jpg
[Shingeki no Kyojin, molestation scene? in image]


















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #372.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: So I have a problem...

[(Anonymous)]

I'm seeing her tomorrow and since the prevailing opinions (not including the "You're fucked up" and "Dump her") are to be honest, I suppose I'm going to have to. I suppose I knew this was the case before I even posted. I would have really like some alternatives (actual alternatives other than "Get Help" and "It's time to end your 12 year relationship".)

Re: So I have a problem...

[(Anonymous)]

...You were hoping for some "alternatives" to being honest with your girlfriend?

Re: So I have a problem...

[diet_poison]

Sometimes people just need confirmation. And maybe he was - maybe he was looking for alternatives, and is ok with accepting that there aren't any, because it's the only option.

Re: So I have a problem...

[(Anonymous)]

da

There aren't so much alternatives as a choice to be made about how you go about the only healthy and respectful option (i.e., being honest). Honesty can be a blunt force blow to the head in its brutal simplicity and lack of nuance, or it can a complex and dynamic conversation filled with nuance. Aim for that. You are already miles ahead of some dudes by even getting that there is not an inherent logical flow from what you feel about what your girlfriend should or should not do with her body and what she is perfectly entitled to do with it without being shamed. Go the next step and get that you deserve, as one half of this relationship, to be heard about something that has bearing on the boundaries of intimacy and trust you share with her, and she deserves to have you share your thoughts as respectfully as possible - and listen to her as she tries to decide what to do. She probably has some things to hash out for herself, not only the potential impact on her relationship but how she felt about her modeling days and feels about herself in general and whether it's truly something she can do with a healthy mindset or something she's feeling pushed towards by financial pressures. Help her think through stuff without pushing your desired outcome on her one way or another, and just let your opinion, since she did solicit it, be whatever part of the calculus she feels it should be. Hopefully you feel fairly and respectfully considered enough to be okay, relationship-wise, with her choice (even if it winds up not your preferred choice).