[ SECRET POST #2609 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2609 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Thank you, F!S, for proving OP's point

[(Anonymous)]

You know a relationship isn't abusive if the participants are willing and overall happy, yes? Learn to speak for yourself and stop projecting your ego on others. That's how you come across.

Re: Thank you, F!S, for proving OP's point

[(Anonymous)]

Er, no.

If a Dom/me tried to pull half the crap that Christian Grey does, he/she'd be banned from my local group quicker than you could say "buttplug".

Re: Thank you, F!S, for proving OP's point

[(Anonymous)]

Not if the sub was okay with it.
You have no right to speak for others, yanno.

Re: Thank you, F!S, for proving OP's point

[elephantinegrace]

If there was EVER a chance for her to express her being okay or not okay with stuff like the stalking and tracking and threatening her friends, and she said she was okay with everything, I would gladly let that go. As it is and as a former Domme, reading about their interactions filled me with so much rage that I had to skip a LOT just to keep from burning the library copy (which probably would have been a good thing).

Re: Thank you, F!S, for proving OP's point

[(Anonymous)]

+10000

Re: Thank you, F!S, for proving OP's point

[(Anonymous)]

I think it's pretty obvious she's okay with it. Do you need everything spelled out like a grade schooler?

Re: Thank you, F!S, for proving OP's point

[(Anonymous)]

Stalking someone before entering into an established relationship is perfectly healthy.

Re: Thank you, F!S, for proving OP's point

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT

I think the whole point is that the relationship, as described in FSoG, does not at all come across as one with two willing, happily consenting participants. Even from her POV, it comes of as her being frightened of his violent rages and inconsistent moods, as well as his possessiveness and clear inability to let her make her own decisions.

Granted, there might be room for interpretation about some fine details, but I'm sorry, I just don't believe there's really a way to say there are no questionable moments in their relationship.