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⌈ Secret Post #2611 ⌋

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You can "tell it like it is" (or like you think it is) without being a shithead js

Yep.

The reality is that that happens often, and that OP is being delusional if they think there's no chance of it occurring just because they trust their partner currently.

The fact that you're responding to this right now lets me know my message had an impact, which is exactly what I meant it to do.

Uh, okay, first off my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. I didn't put that in there because it sounds silly to care about six more months like as if I'm accumulating relationship points based on how many months it's been. We have lived with each other for more than a year, and both of us have the same personality type on the Meyer's Briggs test and we both deal with our exes in the same way. Meaning that we just take time for ourselves until we feel happy again; we're both not vengeful people who would put our exes nudes on the internet. It's destructive behavior and he and I are both peaceful, happy people.

Just because you seem to know these vindictive people doesn't mean my boyfriend is. So no, you won't ever be seeing my tits. And not that it's any of your business, but my boyfriend has excitedly brought up marriage and children recently and keeps asking for my feedback on it. So if all goes well, I'll be saying fiance instead.

Sorry, OP, but I'm having trouble with the fact that you brought up this very personal thing between you and your boyfriend and then turn around and act like people's comments on it are unwelcome. Granted, I don't care for how herpy's comments were phrased, but you seem either really naive or smug about this relationship. I hope I'm wrong about that, and I hope I'm just misreading things, and that things do work out (or at least don't come back to bite you in a place your phone has photographic evidence of).

I'm going to take your word that your boyfriend isn't a vindictive cretin. I don't know what kind of phone you have (and if you haven't mentioned it, don't tell me, because I don't want to know), but you really should consider putting a passcode on it, and treat it like it can be hacked at any time.

Except I haven't? I was more curious about other people's experiences with sexting than the discussion of my own. And I fail to see how it's smug or naive to know your partner well enough that they wouldn't be vindictive. He and I are very close with each other and we don't hide anything. We've always been able to talk things out and are comfortable that way.

I already put a passcode on my phone. Someone below suggested it.

I would never send people pictures I don't want on the internet, so no impactful message needed. It just doesn't look good on you to go "Dur hur, I'm going to enjoy looking at your tits."

Ugh yeah this. It's like, creep detected.

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that really got me side-eyeing him as well

Are you trying to imply that your message would not have had an impact if you'd been nicer about it?

Or that I'm responding to the message itself rather than your shitty attitude?

I don't disagree with what you're saying - I just think you don't need to be a huge prick about it to get your point across.

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