[ SECRET POST #2615 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2615 ⌋

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Comments

[inkdust]

I get that. To be completely honest with you, I was in a relationship for a long time with someone I loved for her personality, but was never wholly attracted to, and we both suffered for it. That's an incompatibility that can happen. That's the biggest reason I say to take some time. But if your uncertainty doesn't lessen with time, I think that's the point where you do have to sit down with them and be honest about both your feelings and your doubt. You can frame it very clearly in terms of your own orientation and not about them - in fact their awesomeness is what put you in this position. Be honest about your concerns too - you're afraid of hurting them if your physical attraction doesn't work out the way you hoped. But after you've taken some time, if you remain uncertain, I would explain your situation and then leave it up to them. I don't think there's anything else you can do, unless you just keep it all in and continue on as friends. It sounds like you want more than that.

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You're probably right. Thank you. I didn't really think there were any other options, but decided to ask fandomsecrets anyway on the off chance that someone somehow had a super special magical idea.

[inkdust]

I wish I did have a super special magical idea for you. But I wish you luck!