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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-03 07:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2617 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2617 ⌋

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As a note, social justice is not a fandom. Tumblr itself is not a fandom.

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Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
I'm going with everyone else and saying getting yourself off to publically available, sexually explicit images is normal and okay. That's what they are put online for.

Googling friends/family deliberately in order to find sexually explicit materials on them, now that's a different matter. That's where it gets weird and creepery and seems worse if a male does it, because more stalkers/abusers are male and it's a huge red flag.

The masturbation, that seems actually a little better because you're a man. Although women masturbate as well, some women don't, and I think the percentage is higher than men who don't masturbate. So it's a normal urge, and many men get off to their gf's family/friends.

It's the googling you should feel skeevy about. The masturbation is fine, although you wouldn't want to admit it to your gf unless you're really open and close and it wouldn't upset her.

Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
I was under the impression there was no Googling for her, if he found her under a fake name. Sounded more like a porn search then recognizing the cousin in photos to me?

Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
No I heard about the porn and her fake name and the website from a third party, which I then, eventually took to google and found her part of the site. More out of curiosity to be perfectly honest. The wanking just sort of followed.

Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
Tbh, as if my bf told me he jerked off to my cousin, I'd be like "nope" and dump him. If it was a famous person/pornstar, whatever, but a person I know, a family member, is a totally different avenue.