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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-03 07:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2617 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2617 ⌋

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Re: Loser or introvert?

[personal profile] inevitableentresol 2014-03-04 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
I just put off doing things a lot. Scheduling appointments is obnoxious, and shopping for necessities is a pain and I put it off until I absolutely can't anymore - but it's not like I'd put my health or hygiene at risk.

I do exactly the same. Seems normal to me.

the lack of motivation to do stuff is still there

I've never had it and used to worry that I wasn't normal. But everyone's different. Think about it this way: you have so much more time for your solitary hobbies.

why is it so much effort to go out shopping for clothes or whatever. People are supposed to enjoy this stuff!

Many people don't enjoy that stuff. It's really a huge con. Clothes shops and the women's magazine industry spends a lot of money trying to convince us that it's fun to spend. Why would they need all the ads and expensive shop fittings and expensive women's magazine ads if shopping were actually inherently fun? Wouldn't we just go out and do it without the advertising?

Shopping as a leisure activity is a hobby like any other, same as birdwatching or writing fanfic. Some people are going to like it and others not.

Really, you're not alone.