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We do the whole friends and parties thing to meet new people as well, but not exclusively. If two people get to know each other at a party they'll probably make plans to see each other one on one.

Personally I can't imagine having sex with someone I barely know. People do it here but definitely not as a rule. Just makes me shudder.

It isn't to meet people, it is just a tradition you drink alcohol at a friends house before going out because alcohol is seriously expensive and double that in a bar. So you might meet or already know someone there and get to the "I am attracted to you" place then spend quite a few hours with them at that house, then going out then going back to an afterparty, then you might have sex with them. Mostly if you already know them, if you don't making out is also an alternative.

Having sex with virtual strangers don't happen more often in Norway than anywhere else I would think, but you might have sex with someone and by having sex you are a couple. Because that is what the last weeks/months have been leading up to through various parties and so on.

I'm not explaining myself well I think.

Oh I meant the same thing about meeting at a friend's house before going out, we do that often here for the same reason, but that's also a place you might meet people they know but you don't yet. It sounds like all the lead-up to a relationship over there is just done in group settings rather than one on one. And the difference of sex defining the start of a relationship.

Kinda, but kinda not. It is done in a group setting in the way that other people you know are around somewhere, but they will know the signs to keep away and leave two people alone if they seem to be hitting it of... Which I guess involves pretty much the same things that a date would in The US. You sit/stand talking to someone where flirting is involved and you get to know them better, or in the case where you already know them you might be getting closer to kissing/making out/sex and so on, doing this with the same person for most of the night would probably count as much as a date would.

Then sex might or might not happen at the end, if it does* and you spend the night you might ask him/her to do something later that day or another day if you don't know them well if you want it to continue and if you do know them well you are either a couple of you have to have an awkward "I just don't think we should be together, but the sex was fun" conversation.

*Or no sex but you still spend the night together.

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