... oh, nice. Thanks for the tip! It's been immensely frustrating to deal with this. This happened once before- about nine years ago, in a different and very tiny fandom where I WAS something of a BNF. I had so much support from friends there. Now that I'm in a HUGE fandom working with a very tiny ship, it gets difficult to deal with without alienating those few who also share interest in the pairing. :/