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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-07 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2621 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2621 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: Random Confessions Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
I'm bisexual and just recently entered back into the dating scene after 3 years of single bliss.
I've met up with guys and girls alike and came to a pretty startling realisation: I'm actually afraid of the guys. I specifically only go on day light/"coffee time" dates with them. Which is really disturbing to me because
a) I never had that sort of uncalled aprehension before
and
b) you can still have "safe" dates at a bar etc.

But as soon as I get there my head immediately goes through all the worst case scenarios, even though most of the dudes I've been meeting up with have been nothing but lovely.

I wish I would know WHY the heck this suddenly has happened an how I could change it because it's completely unfair towards them AND makes life uneccesarily harder :(
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Re: Random Confessions Thread

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2014-03-08 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
I blame Tumblr.

Re: Random Confessions Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
What you describe is not really uncommon, and I respect that you're trying to work through it rather than just assuming your worst fears must be true. Can you imagine a scenario or set of circumstances that would make you LESS afraid? That might be a starting point for figuring out how to feel better.