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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-09 04:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #2623 ]


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da

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Woah woah woah, that is not true at all. I know for sure my own American sex ed class was not hostile or condemnatory in any way. And while the actual "sexual" part of the sex ed was pretty hetero normative there was nothing about being married and there was definitely talk about queer relationships and it being okay to be yourself and love who you love as long as it was a healthy relationship.
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Re: da

[personal profile] feotakahari 2014-03-09 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess personal experience versus personal experience doesn't count much. But I read Pervocracy, and the author has talked at length about how fucked-up her sex ed classes were. She also links to other authors who've had similar experiences.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah, there are a ton of really messed up "sex ed" that probably shouldn't even be titled that. I have a friend that grew up in the deep south and her sex ed was essentially "don't have sex until you're married. The end."

But it's hugely dependent on where you are and the individual school, I don't' think it's fair to say that all of American sexual education is hostile and awful. I grew up in a pretty liberal area and I know my school and all the surrounding schools had pretty decent sex ed starting in 4th grade and then working up to topics throughout high school.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
congrats, at least you fucking HAD it. Our was, "You get a period and OH ABSTINENCE!!!!"

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
America sounds fucking scary...

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow. No need to be aggressively hostile to the other anon just because you grew up in different places with different experience.