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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-09 04:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #2623 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2623 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-10 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
All true. But porn is a kind of information about sex, specifically, the kind that isn't trying to be clinical and emotionally distanced. And it's super useful, both in terms of learning what this sex stuff has to do with you, how it affects and impacts you, and in terms of recognizing what's going on with the people around you. You're in a much better position to figure out how someone else is perceiving sex and you and their relationship to you if you have a broader sense of what people actually think about sex than "these are the healthy ways to approach sex." In my experience, life doesn't just send healthy, well-adjusted people your way, and being a child doesn't protect you from that. But having some idea of what you might be dealing with can.