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fandomsecrets2014-03-11 06:26 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2014-03-11 06:26 pm
[ SECRET POST #2625 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2625 ⌋
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Re: Most embarrassing relationship you have been in.
It started when I transferred to a new, smaller high school in my sophomore year. I was introduced to some friendly people and got along fine with everyone in this small little group. And well, one of the guys in that group had an interest in me. He was cute, in his senior year, and I just wanted something fun at the time. We went on a few dates and made out at his house when he was home alone. He was also really into Star Wars, so that won big points with me. He even showed me a light saber replica he had that we could make jokes about. But after a few weeks he broke up with me because he heard a rumor that I was gay (which was only half true; I'm bisexual) and he didn't want to progress things with someone who was "confused".
So that was kind of hilarious and embarrassing at the time for me? When he found out that I was bisexual he wanted to get back together, but by then I had moved on.
The next one was more of the typical stupid "love/hate" teenage relationship that belonged more in a Degrassi episode. I was finishing my sophomore year when I met him. He was bisexual too, so we both kind of clicked on that. It turned out some of our interests were the same, so we hung out a lot after school at the beach or the mall. But even though he was very handsome, he was severely moody and the typical bad boy. We had a lot of tiffs with each other over some disrespectful comments or things he would do, and he'd always try to make it up to me, and I'd always forgive him. But he didn't respect my boundaries because I wanted to take things slow, so I eventually broke it off with him.
He didn't take too well to it. In fact, he became a massive cockblock and acted possessive of me even when we had broken up. He almost interfered with my next relationship with my first serious girlfriend.
So I guess those relationships were rather embarrassing and ones I wouldn't recommend people have, but I don't regret them because they taught me lessons in life and what I didn't want in future relationships. The first taught me that I didn't want someone who was so insecure that they couldn't trust me or ask me about something that was bothering them so we could talk it out. And the latter taught me that I would never date a "bad boy" or a "bad girl" ever again. They're too much drama with little reward. So from that experience I learned I would only settle for people who respected me 100% and kept kind-hearted company around them.