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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-16 04:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2630 ]


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(Anonymous) 2014-03-17 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Honestly, I've had something similar happen to me before, and I didn't feel jealous so much as pissed that I had been treated so rudely. As you note, it's disrespectful.

I don't feel possessive of people in the sense that I want them to just be with me or that I feel threatened if they're around other possible romantic interests. But if I make plans with someone, (whether it's someone I'm dating or someone I'm just friends with) then I'm going to focus on them during that period, and I expect them to reciprocate. Otherwise, it's almost like you're just there to kill time until something better comes along, and that's not nice at all.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-17 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
Thankyou! Yes, that makes sense. I don't feel threatened per se by other romantic interests, and have encouraged my long-term current partner to pursue them.

it's almost like you're just there to kill time until something better comes along

Ouch. Okay. Yeah, I think that's what that person was doing to me :/

Appreciated :-)