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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-20 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2634 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2634 ⌋

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So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
from my mom, who went to visit a jointly-owned apartment they bought a year ago and found some random other woman and dog in it. That's possibly where he goes every Tuesday and Friday when he's out at business dinners.

Not sure what to feel about it.

On one hand, I don't really care. He's almost 60 years old and my parents aren't that close, he can do what he likes, it doesn't impact me in any way. On the other hand, I'm a little surprised to say the least.

Could it possibly be a big misunderstanding? I don't know.
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-03-21 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
In any case I wouldn't tell your mom unless you're sure...

Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
"from my mom" that means she's the one that found out
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-03-21 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry, I completely misread that.
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Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

[personal profile] forgottenjester 2014-03-21 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Man, that's what divorce is for. If he were my dad I would have a hard time trusting him from now on.

But if you and your mother don't care then... it doesn't matter, does it?
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Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

[personal profile] yield 2014-03-21 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
even if it was some kind of misunderstanding, why not tell your mom about the woman/dog? like "hey this lady needs a place to stay how about our apartment" or something. if it were me i would be upset, at least on behalf of my mom if nothing else. but every family dynamic is different.

Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
kill him. save your mom the hurt of finding out the truth.

Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, you kill quickly. Did you miss the part where the OP said they found out from their mom?

So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom... FROM MY MOM

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
It's not a secret from her guys, lol.

Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, god. I had to read that three times, being confused until I remembered that adultery is not just normal parent behavior they do a very bad job of trying to hide from you.

Fidelity: Something both of my parents are really, really bad at.

I wish I had some advice to give you, but I really just stayed as far as fucking possible from that shit.

Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
To what extent does your mother seem to care?
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Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

[personal profile] tabaqui 2014-03-21 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
If it's an issue to your mom, then do whatever she needs - i.e, talking, a hug, whatever. If she doesn't seem to care, then - let it go. It's between them and unless your mom is in the habit of hiding her emotions, maybe she's indifferent to him having a mistress or whatever.

And, really, it could just be a huge misunderstanding on her part, unless she's had some kind of notion before this about him.

Basically, care as much as your mom cares, for her, but don't try to get into the middle of it or 'fix' it or anything.

Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Basically, care as much as your mom cares, for her, but don't try to get into the middle of it or 'fix' it or anything.

Nothing to add really.

Re: So I just found out my dad might be cheating on my mom...

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
Ha, I'm happy my parents date other people. More nice things for them, I guess. I wish I knew less about it, though. Oh, well. I really don't care.