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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-24 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2638 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2638 ⌋

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Re: Spoiled Rotten?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-25 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Well it's never good, but I think it depends somewhat on the person and the circumstances and what kind of spoiled they are.

I'd say letting one's child become the ill-mannered, tantrum-throwing, undisciplined and disrespectful type of spoiled is borderline abuse (not only of the child but of everyone they encounter!)

Merely overindulging a kid, without letting them become a screaming self-entitled brat, is somewhat less destructive, but it's not really doing them any favors if they're eventually going to be expected to get by in the world on their own. Going from a relatively secure and easy lifestyle where money is never a problem, to one where cash has to be earned and carefully managed, can be a big shock and make it very very easy to get into financial trouble.

I'd say that putting others in harm's way is one definite line. Doing everything for the kid and failing to impart the most basic necessary life skills may be another.