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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-24 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2638 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2638 ⌋

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Re: Spoiled Rotten?

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-03-25 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
...To be honest, this nurture vs. nature debate is one that's gone on for practically a century in developmental psych, and it swings back and forth between deciding parents are responsible for the personality traits and mannerisms of their children, and claiming that parental actions don't really do anything to influence morals and development.

I'm in the 50/50 range. Ultimately, you can't control anyone's behaviour without extreme coercion (and sometimes even that fails). On the other hand, that certainly doesn't mean you shouldn't attempt to demonstrate how to be a good person and let that be one of the (many and vast) influences your children use to determine the best way to model their own behaviour. The only advantage we have as parents is that our example is usually the first example a child sees, and may therefore be one of the most memorable.
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Re: Spoiled Rotten?

[personal profile] lunabee34 2014-03-25 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
We left the same comment. LOL

Re: Spoiled Rotten?

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-03-25 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
Ahahaha we rule *brofist*.