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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-29 03:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2643 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2643 ⌋

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Re: fandom friend advice

[personal profile] inevitableentresol 2014-03-30 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
It sounds like she really listens and values your opinions, or else she wouldn't be repeating your ideas on her tumblr.

Does she know this bothers you? If you don't tell her, how can she know?

Presumably she knows you like to stay invisible on tumblr as you say you have lots of other conversations about fannish things. Perhaps she thinks you like that she widens the discussion to others without you having to stick your head up.

You're not wrong to resent it, you can't help your feelings. But if you don't even attempt to tell your friend it upsets you and she keeps on doing it, yes, then that is your fault.

Re: fandom friend advice

(Anonymous) 2014-03-30 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. That all sounds-- really very reasonable, actually. I think I needed a reality check on my own odd reactions. There is actually a compliment in it when viewed that way, so I should just... brave up and mention that I get taken aback sometimes, see how it goes.