[ SECRET POST #2643 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2643 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Does it make me sexist against my own gender...

[(Anonymous)]

I just hate the "not all [insert group here] are bad" thing-- not because it isn't true, because it is, but because it's so prevalent to mock/deride men for saying the same thing when women are wary of strange men.

What's the difference between a woman being cautious around men due to a fear of being assaulted, and using your example, someone being cautious around black people if honestly the only experience they've had is negative? The rational answer is still there-- "not all men are bad"/"not all blacks are bad", and that's true. But one of those is dismissed as bullshit and the other is obvious. So why the differentiation?

Re: Does it make me sexist against my own gender...

[ariakas]

Maybe this makes me a bad feminist, but I don't think that there ought to be a difference. Sure, men hold more power in society, but "some men were bad to me and now I dread all men" is just as much bullshit as "some blacks were bad to me and now I dread all blacks", frankly.

There seriously are women in my profession who loathe the men in it because of bad experiences and no, this is in no way, shape, or form more justified than the OP in prejudging all female bosses. I've had the same argument with them.

Re: Does it make me sexist against my own gender...

[(Anonymous)]

"What's the difference between a woman being cautious around men due to a fear of being assaulted, and using your example, someone being cautious around black people if honestly the only experience they've had is negative?"

Because men are evil priviledged oppressors and black people are an oppressed minority. Colour of skin trumps gender as well - it's why to a lot of people (especially of the dumblr variety) saying "I'm wary of men because men" is perfectly acceptable and met with support but saying "I'm wary of black men" is evil and racists. (But only if you are a white girl. Or something.)