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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-01 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2646 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2646 ⌋

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[Free! Iwatobi Swim Club]


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[Love so Life]


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[the last leg]


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[Karen Gillian/Doctor Who]


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[True Detective]


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[Yume Nikki]


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[Black Dagger Brotherhood Series]


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[Mass Effect]


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(Anonymous) 2014-04-01 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
There's a nine year age difference.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-01 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
And that's supposed to be something wrong? My cousin is dating a guy 15 years older than her and they are happy together.

There's nothing wrong about love as long as the two persons love each other and both want to be together.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-01 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
It's probably that she's a sixteen year old girl and he's a twenty-five year old guy. At that point in time, an age difference like that is a big deal.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-02 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
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Oh. That adds a little context.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-02 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
But that is completely legal in japan?
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[personal profile] ibbity 2014-04-02 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Still kind of skeevy considering the disparity in maturity and life experience.
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[personal profile] darkmanifest 2014-04-02 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
There's nothing wrong about love as long as the two persons love each other and both want to be together.

...and are consenting adults.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-02 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
which in japan they are?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-02 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
It still has skeevy grooming vibes and a big power imbalance, though. :/

Please tell me you're not saying it's okay for a dad to be a relationship with his adoptive daughter.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-02 11:32 am (UTC)(link)
If they want to, why not.
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[personal profile] darkmanifest 2014-04-02 03:41 am (UTC)(link)
Age of majority in Japan is 20, only age of consent is 13. The girl might be considered legally competent to consent to sex, but she still isn't considered a legal adult. That can be a moral sticking point with some people, hence why I specified "consenting adults", instead of "consenting people".

(Anonymous) 2014-04-01 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, sure there might be a disrepancy in life experience and they might break up, but if the younger party is legal (I'm from Poland where it's 15, at the moment living in UK where it's 16 - I'm assuming it's 16ish in Japan depending on the area? Their national law states 13, but it doesn't apply when overridden by local laws. I think.), it's fine from the standpoint of the law (psychologically, it depends on the people). Most relationships I know have an age difference of 9 years ... MINIMUM (and nope, mostly the women are older).