[ SECRET POST #2646 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2646 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Free! Iwatobi Swim Club]


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[Love so Life]


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[the last leg]


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[Karen Gillian/Doctor Who]


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[True Detective]


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[Yume Nikki]


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[Black Dagger Brotherhood Series]


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[Mass Effect]


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT

"Setting up a private account" is really difficult when you're so dependent on other people, especially if they have power/authority over you.

[(Anonymous)]

Do you mean really difficult psychologically or legally? Because I'm pretty sure if OP is an adult with ID they can go in and open up an account by themselves. If you mean psychologically otoh, then yeah. After reading some of their other replies it sounds like it might be difficult for OP to manage, but I still think it's a solid thing for them to attempt.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I agree with this. Plus, managing to overcome the hurdle should increase OP's confidence/comfort levels immensely. Everyone opens their first bank account sometime in their lives; the bank tellers/managers probably see half a dozen people a day doing just that. So don't worry they'll think you don't know what you're doing, OP; you won't be the first one, and you won't be the last...but after you do accomplish it, then that's one thing you will have done, for yourself, and by yourself. The only way to do it is, as cliche as the Nike ad sounds, "Just do it!"

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

I guess I mean psychologically/physically. The following are all purely hypothetical situations and instances of abuse, but:

If anon has to rely on parents to go places and they want to know why she wants to go to the bank and don't agree with her opening a private account, they can refuse to take her.

The same is true if they hold on to her ID ("to keep it safe") or if she doesn't actually have a state-issued ID, she'd need her social security card and/or birth certificate to get one. Which, cue the same sitch.

Basically, if her parents want to keep her under their thumb, getting out and even taking the steps to get out -- short of getting help from protection groups, which if this is the situation, anon should definitely do -- is really super difficult.

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Ah, I see what you mean and did not think about these angles at all! You are right that it could in fact be a very difficult thing to do and I hope OP isn't in that bad a situation. :(