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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-04 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2649 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2649 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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04. http://i.imgur.com/eD4bGbG.jpg
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[AlternateHistory.com : Malê Rising]


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11. [SPOILERS for Superior Spider-Man]



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12. [SPOILERS for Believe]



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13. [WARNING for rape]

[Orwell]


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[Colditz]


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(Anonymous) 2014-04-04 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Love is putting someone's needs before yours!
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[personal profile] ibbity 2014-04-05 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, but WHY do you do this?
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[personal profile] badass_tiger 2014-04-05 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Not necessarily. Sometimes you put their needs before yours because it's YOUR need that their needs go first. Besides, how about those people who are clingy and jealous of the people they love? Surely they love their beloved too, if in a selfish sort of way. Romantic love is definitely selfish a lot of the time.

ETA: And you can put somebody's needs before yours without loving them. Out of a sense of duty, out of a sense of kindness, because you're being paid for it ... doesn't mean you love them.
Edited 2014-04-05 00:22 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2014-04-05 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think love is selfish. That jealousy and clingy-behavior doesn't usually spring from love, but from self-doubt. Yes, jealous lovers do love the object of their affections, but that jealousy doesn't come from their lover. What's that old quote? "Love is patient, love is kind, love does not envy, etc..."

In its purest sense, I think love is a very selfless thing. You want the object of your affection to be happy, even at the expense of your own happiness. Other emotions can cloud it (doubt, anger, whatever) and drive us to selfish deeds, but at its most base, I think Olaf described it well. He put it into good, simple words that children can understand: "Love is putting someone else's needs before yours."

(Anonymous) 2014-04-05 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
That's from the Bible. I Corinthians 13