I'm still waffling on breaking up with my fiancee. Months after deciding it was pretty much over, months after she moved out to try to get herself together and I discovered I was happier than I had been in the last few years.

Just the few years before that, when she did have herself together, were pretty good. And I don't hate her, I still think she's the only person I could ever actually stand to live with (including my family) and we make an awesome team. We still talk online regularly and crack each other up when we do.

But right now I'm making the same kinds of furious frustrated posts about her lack of responsibility that I saw a past housemate of hers make, about the time she and I got together, so clearly she didn't change during all that time...