[ SECRET POST #2652 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2652 ⌋

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Comments

[elialshadowpine]

Yeah, exactly... I mean, I feel a little for coffee!anon because I probably wouldn't react well to someone staring at me, but ... throwing a cup of hot coffee in their face is pretty extreme for no active threat or violence or anything. Esp since there are other reasons someone could be staring (I have a number of friends with ADD, and I've run into this myself, with getting lost in thought and it appearing to be staring to other people) that are not sexual in origin. "Yo, you're making me uncomfortable here" is a more appropriate reaction than coffee to the face.

[diet_poison]

My response would probably have been to stare back at them until I catch their eye and they realize they were staring at me and then get embarrassed and look away. I've done that before, and it works.

[elialshadowpine]

Yup, I have done the same thing. It works like a charm. (Except when you have guys like my ex who would intentionally stare and then defend himself by saying that if they didn't want to be stared at, they shouldn't dress like that. It is amazing the amount of sexism that he had that didn't start to appear until, I think, got on medication that affected his ability to hold up the mask. Some of the stuff was horrifying, for reals.)

[diet_poison]

holy shit, I can see why he is your ex.

I hope he gets a clue. 0_0

[elialshadowpine]

Literally, that shit didn't appear until the last couple of months he was living with us, and then immediately after he was informed that he was getting evicted. After that, it was all bets are off, and he let his sexist flag fly. This is also the asshole that bragged about tricking me into a relationship because I had mentioned at one point only being interested in people who are female or identified as feminine. He told me that he identified more female, and approached things very differently than most guys... and it was apparently all an act, because he boasted about having kept it up for years and I totally got tricked into a relationship with a macho guy.

[diet_poison]

That's major creepy shit right there.

And...why? Why would he do something like that? Even if he's telling the truth...why go out of his way to date a girl who's obviously not his type? Is it one big power trip??

[elialshadowpine]

IKR? I have no idea. I half suspect it's something he made up just to get at me, but having talked with other people who knew him from wayback, I can't say that for certain. He was VERY big on power trips, that's for sure.

edit because it comes to mind he's the sort who gets downright offended if a woman isn't *gasp* interested in him. So that may have been a part of it -- the "conquest" and tricking a woman who otherwise wouldn't be interested. He's pretty fucked up. This is the dude we found a whole bunch of professional business cards from women with things scrawled on them like "hot tits" "nice ass" and so forth when we were cleaning his shit out of the house.

[diet_poison]

ughh, so creepy. Like a Nice Guy^TM on emotional steroids.

Also seeing women as prizes/objects of conquest is just...so...I can't believe people still think that way. Combined with the business cards (he keeps them to remind himself how hawt random professional women are?) he's like the ultimate objectifier. So glad you got rid of him.