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fandomsecrets2014-04-09 06:36 pm
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[Ioan Gruffudd/Fantastic Four 2005]
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[Laurell K. Hamilton]
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[Bates Motel]
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[Sherlock]
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[Korn; Breaking Benjamin]
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[American Horror Story]
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[Gwyneth Paltrow, Iron Man]
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[Kino's journey/Kino no tabi]
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[Roxy Music]
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-10 11:53 am (UTC)(link)Curious to know if you think you would see it differently if one of them was a woman?
(not attacking you just genuinely curious)
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Now granted, there are shows where these same things between a man and a woman are meant to be romantic. And sometimes when I see them I just kind of go "omg no they are going to make them hook up??" But that's because it's statistically more likely, not because I perceive these gestures/sentiments as inherently non-platonic.
(note, though, that I'm talking about modern settings and non-traditional narratives created in the late 20th-early 21st century).
IMO it's ultimately a matter of what the author wants to say and whether they introduce other prominent plot devices that hint at a romance. Gestures of affection in themselves can never be a good indication of what kind of relationship is going on (unless they are also signs of sexual attraction, as in staring at the other's ass/boobs, groping, kissing on the mouth).
I actually wish we had more touchy-feely man&woman on-screen friendships where there would be all these supposedly telltale signs but the fact that it's a friendship would be made obvious with the help of plot/stylistic devices.