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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-14 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2659 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2659 ⌋

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Re: Sorry, but you are wrong.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-15 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
If someone ties you up and whips you and you enjoy the experience and do it intentionally, whether or not your enjoyment is sexual, yes, it's kink. Plenty of people in the kink community experience kink that way. At most play parties I've ever been to, sure, people get aroused, but plenty of people don't, and sex is often not allowed.

Re: Sorry, but you are wrong.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-15 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly. A lot of kinks don't even involve having sex. Doesn't make the kink suddenly non-sexual.

Re: Sorry, but you are wrong.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-15 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
... but that's exactly what this sub-thread is about. Kinks are inherently sexual. They can't be "platonic".

Re: Sorry, but you are wrong.

[personal profile] whositwhatsit 2014-04-15 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
But it's really not kink. Kink is inherently an expression of sexuality, full stop. An activity, even if it's one very commonly associated with sexual expression, is not a kink when done completely divorced from some component of that purpose.

And it sounds like you're saying that "having sex" is required for something to be sexual, when it's not. Those people getting aroused, even if not having sex, are expressing themselves sexually and experiencing some level of sexual gratification from the activities they are engaging in. THAT is what makes it kink. Without the arousal (or expectation of or hope for arousal) as the underlying purpose in doing it, it's just...an activity.
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Re: Sorry, but you are wrong.

[personal profile] darkmanifest 2014-04-15 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not really feeling the whole "lol getting whipped for fun is just roleplaying hdu" comments, but wouldn't non-sexual masochism fall more accurately under the general umbrella of "BDSM" or "D/s" instead of "kink"?