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fandomsecrets2014-04-18 07:35 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2014-04-18 07:35 pm
[ SECRET POST #2663 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2663 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Stardust]
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03. [posted twice]
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[Elementary]
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[El Goonish Shive]
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07. http://i62.tinypic.com/29cxt2a.jpg
[Hadaka Shitsuji, censored porn]
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08. http://i.imgur.com/XGwxaCR.jpg
[cosplay; no sex but definitely nsfw]
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12. [ns]
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[Art by: http://www.deviantart.com/art/Lets-Sing-Together-338248375]
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17. [SPOILERS for Soul Eater]
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18. [SPOILERS for captain america: the winter soldier]
[WARNING for rape]
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19. [WARNING for suicide]
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20. [WARNING for incest, possible non-con]
Notes:
Late at work again, sorry. Should be back to normal by next week!
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #380.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: On the subject of fanservice
(Anonymous) 2014-04-19 02:42 am (UTC)(link)a decent therapist should NOT judge you. that's not what they're there for. a decent therapist will be able to sit with you and your thoughts and feelings, and help you untangle the knots.
and as someone who cares an awful lot about women's rights, I think it's amazing that you're even aware of/acknowledge how messed up expressions of sexuality can be.
but please don't get mad at yourself about it. you've grown up in a culture that's taught you these things. the next step is to change it.
imagine how wonderful it would be to express your sexuality without guilt or misogyny, and to simply enjoy sexual relationships. that's achievable!
instead of seeing a general therapist, it may even be beneficial to see a sex therapist, since they would specialize in that sort of issue.
I hope you eventually free yourself of self-loathing. it's not a fun place to be. :(
Re: On the subject of fanservice
(Anonymous) 2014-04-19 02:44 am (UTC)(link)you just sound human. that's ok. :)