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⌈ Secret Post #2665 ⌋

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Comments

[tabaqui]

Yeah, sorry, no. Pretty much everyone i know works, drives, plays, etc. with some level of marijuana in their system and none of them are dumb, or have messed-up thought processes. If you get stoned as a motherfucker, sure, but *all* of these people basically do two or three hits and then quit for a couple hours, do a couple hits and then nothing for five or six hours....

But they do it every day. So, again - no.

[(Anonymous)]

Duuuuuuuuude, that's so messed up.

[tabaqui]

How is it messed up? They all have jobs, families, homes. They do charitable stuff, they have bbq's and bonfires, they visit family on holidays, they dye Easter eggs and go see Santa with their little ones, they play video games and plant flowers and cut the grass and go shopping for towels.

Exactly how is 'it' or 'they' so messed up?

[ansela_jonla]

So basically the stoner version of a functioning alcoholic? They'd fail a roadside breath/drugs test, but you'd never know it from their behaviour?

[tabaqui]

Except that pot and alcohol affect people very differently (and different people differently), and i've never in my life met a pot 'addict'.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think daily use of pot necessarily indicates that someone is at the level of an alcoholic.

My personal experience is in, well...daily use of alcohol. There are many weeks where I'll have a few drinks every night. However, I am not an alcoholic, as indicated by the following two points:
a) I have no chemical dependency. I do not experience any adverse symptoms when I do not drink.
b) I don't have any compulsion to drink. If, for some reason, I can't (medication; training for a race/obstacle course; or, hell, just deciding to put the extra cash toward something else), then I don't, and it doesn't feel like a hardship. There are also weeks or months where, for no real reason, drinking just doesn't appeal to me (the recovering alcoholics I've known tend to find this concept particularly astonishing. It's as if I have a super power).

There can definitely be a fine line between abuse and responsible use of a substance, but I don't think that daily use is necessarily it. Also, while it is possible to develop a psychological dependency on pot, it's somewhat rare. I'm probably in more danger than tabaqui's friends.

I can also say that, having known someone in college who I would say absolutely did have a psychological dependency on pot, I don't think her friends fit the bill. He was awful during that period. It wasn't just that he was consumed with smoking; he was quick to anger, incredibly rigid in his thinking, and nearly incapable of empathy. Kicking the habit turned him back into a normal human. It also gave me an appreciation for the difference between "heavy smoker" and "problem smoker."

[(Anonymous)]

you're implying that having kids makes you more moral. stop it.

[(Anonymous)]

??

They mentioned that they have families and don't let their marijuana use get in the way of having a relationship with their kids or families. While the act of having kids isn't moral in itself obviously, I really don't how you're taking offense to using someone interacting and raising their kids positively as an example for moralness/drug use not getting in the way of other responsibilities.

And this is coming from someone who has no plans to have kids.

[tabaqui]

............whahuh?

[ryttu3k]

Yeah, pretty much this (I don't smoke myself and don't like being around people smoking it, but that's because I have asthma and am quite fond of breathing - I have no problem with it in principle).

Carl Sagan regularly smoked pot for decades. Clearly he was just some idiot stoner with no hope in life, right.

[tabaqui]

Yup. The idea that pot = waste of life is so freaking stupid. I don't smoke either - or drink - but i'll pick the stoner over the drunk any freakin' day.