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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-21 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #2666 ]


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(Anonymous) 2014-04-21 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao
after he cheated on kurt, the whole storyline was about he was the victim and how sad and lonely he was

(Anonymous) 2014-04-21 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I especially loved how Blaine cheating meant that Kurt never needed to be sorry for what a shitty boyfriend he was being after he moved away. The cheating was absolutely worse and I don't excuse it. Kurt was right to be mad, and right to want to break up. But it was like he wasn't ever a shitty boyfriend too at that point.

But precious Kurt never does anything wrong, right?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-21 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
you mean like how he had to apologize to blaine after blaine humiliated him in front of everyone for talking to another guy on the phone?

not to mention blaine was the one who told kurt to move in the first place, and then he couldn't handle it when kurt wasn't on the phone with him 24/7.

But precious Kurt never does anything wrong, right?

No, the way he treated Adam was wrong.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-21 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree that Blaine overreacted in the Whitney episode, so I'm not sure how that point is supposed to contradict what I'm talking about.

And I didn't interpret Blaine as wanting Kurt on the phone with him 24/7. As Kurt continued to blow him off, he clearly got more persistent, but that's a natural reaction to being blown off over and over again by the person you'd generally expect to be there for you. It doesn't matter that Blaine told Kurt to move in the first place. He can't have imagined that his boyfriend would start ignoring him after that. All of that said, his response should not have been to cheat. He could have tried talking to Kurt about it.

The way he treated Adam was definitely wrong.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-21 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe Kurt was blowing him off because he was at his job every time Blaine called?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-21 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

I didn't realize going out after work with people you work with counted as still being at your job. I should be getting paid for that shit. ;)

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Except Kurt was still at the Vogue offices when Blaine called him.
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[personal profile] alexi_lupin 2014-04-22 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
Kurt could have called back.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 07:08 am (UTC)(link)
Do we know he didn't after he got back to the apartment?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
Can we really foist blame in these situations, when the sides are so even? We can take each incident and look upon it through the lens of our own shame, but we cannot say for certain who is the evil and who is the good, for both are evil and both are good.

We cling to the ones that we want to be better, for we want ourselves to be better. We want to cleanse ourselves of our deepest blemishes, and we think that we can do that through character. But we can't. We are deluded. We will always fail to be what we want to be if we go this route.

Once you cast aside the self, you can begin to see that there is no one who is worse. There are only bad people being bad to one another. No one can win. All will lose. all will be miserable.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 02:18 am (UTC)(link)

You must be kidding! Blaine the victim?? There´s no way of being a victim if you are the cheater! The writers made him a needy, clingy manchild who couldn´t even wait a month without cheating. They could make Klaine break up because of the distance, but no, they had to turn Blaine into a cheater.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
The show portrayed him as a victim, I never said he actually was one.