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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-21 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #2666 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2666 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I find "asexuality" as an identity bizarre. Never felt the need to build my identity around something that isn't there.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
I identified as asexual for a while (idk what I am now and I'm in no big rush to label it), but I found it kind of comforting to find out there were people who weren't interested in sex and relationships, when it was such a big deal for everyone around me.

Though, I never really made it a big part of my identity and thankfully never got involved in the online community.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Yeah, when I was younger it was nice to know that I wasn't the only one. But there are things about me that are more representative of "who I really am" than the fact that I'm not sexually attracted to people.

Then again, I have been in romantic relationships so the world probably sees me as straight anyway. I don't care enough to correct them. Is there such a thing as "~sexual passing"?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
I find sexuality as an identity bizarre. I don't get the need to build my identity around who I do or do not want to fuck.

I get that some people get that identity forced upon them, but I also see a whole lot of people that take it up as an identity and not just a trait like every other trait, when there's no pressure to do so. I don't get that.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
I find sexuality bizarre.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
I found a neat lamp in a bazaar.

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I had a psychologist trying to cure me out of my sexuality by trying to convince me my that I must be gay and in denial, because it's wrong and unnatural for a human being to not want to fuck anyone. For a very long time I thought that it must be true and I tried to force myself into same-sex relationships, despite feeling nothing but revulsion, because I didn't realize that I had any alternative.

That's why I love identifying as asexual now. It makes me feel less like a freak and less like being forced to have sex against my will to cure muself of some imaginary brain damage. It's also nice to know that there other people like me out there.