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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-21 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #2666 ]


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tw: csa

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 11:38 am (UTC)(link)
I was the original survivor there and the other person kind of explained what my issue is to an extent. the man who abused us when we were little made a point of involving all of us in each other's experiences, telling us we'd never prove we didn't want to be there and people would always know or suspect that we'd just done it because we liked it and wanted to. it did create a sense of mistrust amongst us which made it easier to control his large group of victims, because we internalized what he told us and never trusted each other. it's also something I'm still working through today with my shrink because part of me is always horrified and feels like it is still potentially true, because that is what he ingrained into us. so the whole thing just hit me in a really bad way and I'm actually really relieved that you handled it so gently after I said anything because I was braced for dismissal or worse, to be honest.
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Re: tw: csa

[personal profile] darkmanifest 2014-04-22 01:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much for coming back to tell me this, and especially for commenting in the first place despite me making you feel you'd be dismissed. Again, I'm sorry for upsetting you and the other anon (and any other survivors reading this), you've both explained things and given me perspective that I should have thought about more thoroughly (particularly that this was a discussion about a child, not an adult) from the beginning, without putting you in a bad place. Thank you again.

Re: tw: csa

(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Different anon; just wanted to say that's a classy response. Way to not be most of the jackoffs arguing on the internet. :)