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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-25 07:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #2670 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2670 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Dan Vs.]


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03.
[Mysterious Cities Of Gold]


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04.
[Sherlock]


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05.
[Drazen Bratulic]


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06.
[Captain America]


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07.
[Smash]


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08.
[El Goonish Shive]


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10. http://i59.tinypic.com/2eebuv6.jpg
[porn, Frozen, illustrated]


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11. [SPOILERS for Shameless US]



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12. [WARNING for suicide]



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13. [WARNING for rape]



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14. [WARNING for domestic violence]



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15. [WARNING for rape/sexual assault]














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Re: Giving co-workers rides?

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-04-26 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
Just fucking say no. Don't make an excuse, don't waffle, don't act like it's your fault that she's been taking advantage of your kindness. You have admitted she isn't your friend and you aren't getting anything out of this arrangement, plus you aren't obligated to do this by any stretch of human decency. There is no way she is going to take a hint, as she is getting rewarded by the fact that you are too weak to stand up for yourself. Even if you tried hinting she would ignore it and continue to ask for rides.

If you really are that much of a pushover that you can't bring yourself to say, "I'm not a taxi, sorry." then you deserve the situation. You are an autonomous being and you are responsible for making your own decisions, so tell her the pool's closed.