[ SECRET POST #2670 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2670 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Dan Vs.]


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03.
[Mysterious Cities Of Gold]


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04.
[Sherlock]


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05.
[Drazen Bratulic]


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06.
[Captain America]


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07.
[Smash]


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08.
[El Goonish Shive]


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10. http://i59.tinypic.com/2eebuv6.jpg
[porn, Frozen, illustrated]


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11. [SPOILERS for Shameless US]



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12. [WARNING for suicide]



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13. [WARNING for rape]



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14. [WARNING for domestic violence]



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15. [WARNING for rape/sexual assault]














Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: So

[(Anonymous)]

This is the first time he's been arrested? Bail him out, even if he did it. Talk to him seriously about it. Work out whether he did or not. Offer to help him and support him if he did it and he has some issues in his life which made him do it. Get an action plan in place. This is your opportunity to show him he has family who loves him and wants to help him get back on the right track if he actually did something wrong.

Think about it: no matter whether he did it or not, if you don't bail him out this time, imagine how he is going to feel about his family/you. You not bailing him out might be his signal to say 'screw it' and spiral downwards (not that it would be your fault, just pointing out the psychology of it).

Now, the 2nd or 3rd time he's in jail and has proved himself an unrepentant little shit? That's when you should refuse to bail him out. Not the first time. Not now.