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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-30 07:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2675 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2675 ⌋

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Re: Apologies

(Anonymous) 2014-04-30 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh, I don't know about okay, but it's probably futile. If someone's fucked up so badly and can't/won't/doesn't apologize of their own volition, "demanding" will probably result in nothing. You'd be better off CALMLY and firmly saying that if you're going to continue being friends/talking to someone/etc. you will need to hear a sincere apology from them. You might even specify that you're not interested in non-apologies like "I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings" or "I'm sorry if you were offended".

But seriously, you can't squeeze an apology out of someone who doesn't want to apologize or who doesn't think they have anything to apologize for. Either let it go, or let it go and cut your ties. Either way, if you make a threat (like not talking to the person) back it up and don't cave or that person will never take you seriously again.