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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-30 07:04 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2675 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2675 ⌋

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Re: Apologies

(Anonymous) 2014-05-01 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Well, you can, and sometimes you definitely deserve that apology too. But in my experience (which has been echoed by many other people I've talked to about this) the one thing that will almost guarantee you won't get an apology, or if you do it won't be sincere, is demand an apology from someone.

If you have a serious grievance with someone that you don't think can be smoothed over with time, AND you wish to have this matter cleared up with the person, definitely you should tell them how their actions have made you feel. But don't demand an apology. And understand that sometimes people can't handle criticism at all, and that they may not take it well and it may make the situation worse.
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Re: Apologies

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-05-01 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
+1000

Re: Apologies

(Anonymous) 2014-05-01 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
If someone can't handle criticism after they've acted in a manner where they've hurt someone else, then you are sure to be dealing with an entitled asswipe.

Re: Apologies

(Anonymous) 2014-05-01 02:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I think there's a difference between criticizing someone and demanding an apology from them, however.
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