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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-01 07:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #2676 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2676 ⌋

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-05-01 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
You mean you were knowingly in a relationship with someone who wasn't available and now you're bitter that they didn't pick you? Really??

First of all, that's not really rational.

Second of all, if someone leaves their SO to date you after cheating on them with you, chances are they'll cheat on you down the line. Why would you want that?

Third of all, cheating or helping someone cheat is super shitty. I think you should go date people who aren't dating someone else and don't ever do anything like that again.

Also, and this may be an unpopular opinion, I don't think you should go broadcasting this. You'll just stir up shit and make things worse. Get away from this situation and go do something else. If you want to get it off your chest, tell him PRIVATELY what happened, come clean, and don't expect him to like you or be grateful you told him; expect him to be as pissed as he deserves to be, and then go away from the situation completely.
Edited 2014-05-01 23:50 (UTC)
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[personal profile] silverr 2014-05-02 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I agree. Telling him privately is a better option: it's even possible that they have an open relationship (or even less likely, that he enjoys being cuckolded), but either way that's their business.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 12:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, tell him privately. I was told by someone I was being cheated on with them and while I was pretty upset, it was better for me in the end.