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[ SECRET POST #2676 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2676 ⌋

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Was her boyfriend aware of the affair?

Because if not, maybe a little honesty will get him to DTMFA.

You and her are both assholes. Tell people so that he can know and leave such a terrible fucking person.

+2.

Yup.

THIS.

+3

Neither of you deserve him.

No one will ever believe you.

yeah, I hope you took screen shots.

I'm leaning towards "...it was an emotional affair" or something to that effect.

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diet_poison - 2014-05-02 03:09 (UTC) - Expand

I...honestly don't know how to feel about this.

Look, you and this BNF both fucked up. If you want to not feel bitter and empty, then maybe you should spend your time and energy on being with people who are actually available.

Probably not a good idea because it will only make people dislike you. But I mean, she was the one cheating on her bf not you, if the truth got out it's on her shoulders. Do what you want but I don't think telling is going to make you any happier.

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diet_poison - 2014-05-02 16:41 (UTC) - Expand

Go ahead and tell. You'll get your drama and the boyfriend gets to know what kind of cheating little turdbag he's dating.

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(Anonymous) - 2014-05-02 00:10 (UTC) - Expand

You mean you were knowingly in a relationship with someone who wasn't available and now you're bitter that they didn't pick you? Really??

First of all, that's not really rational.

Second of all, if someone leaves their SO to date you after cheating on them with you, chances are they'll cheat on you down the line. Why would you want that?

Third of all, cheating or helping someone cheat is super shitty. I think you should go date people who aren't dating someone else and don't ever do anything like that again.

Also, and this may be an unpopular opinion, I don't think you should go broadcasting this. You'll just stir up shit and make things worse. Get away from this situation and go do something else. If you want to get it off your chest, tell him PRIVATELY what happened, come clean, and don't expect him to like you or be grateful you told him; expect him to be as pissed as he deserves to be, and then go away from the situation completely.

Edited 2014-05-01 23:50 (UTC)

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silverr - 2014-05-02 03:25 (UTC) - Expand

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(Anonymous) - 2014-05-02 12:29 (UTC) - Expand

In real life? If so:

1) Fuck you.

2) Fuck her.

3) Tell him privately and apologize for being a horrible person.

4) Learn not to be a horrible person.

That poor dude. He deserves better.

Don't do it. It'll only make more unhappiness and you might not enjoy everyone knowing as much as you think. Move on.

Lesbian ~drama~

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(Anonymous) - 2014-05-02 00:35 (UTC) - Expand

I wish all of the secrets were this juicy. They've mostly been kind of boring lately.

Re: Slow clap it out.

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Re: Slow clap it out.

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Re: Slow clap it out.

(Anonymous) - 2014-05-02 16:35 (UTC) - Expand

Fucking tell him. He deserves to know that his gf is a cheating shitbag.

It won't help. You'll feel more empty and the BNF will hate you. But mostly, you'll just feel more empty.

No shit you feel empty inside. You had an affair with someone, somehow expecting them to drop their boyfriend for you. That fantasy never plays out, man. Stop trying to make someone else's life hell because you fucked yours over with a huge bad decision.

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(Anonymous) - 2014-05-02 19:04 (UTC) - Expand

now i'm curious.

Re: What fandom?

(Anonymous) - 2014-05-02 19:21 (UTC) - Expand

Spend your energy elsewhere. Stirring up drama won't make you feel better. Putting your energy into something or something that gives things back to you will make you feel better. Fill up that hole in your heart, it's there, it's deserved, you spent a lot of love on this person and it's gone, that's perfectly natural. A part of your life is over now. Poking it at it with a stick will only make it linger longer and make it hurt longer. Find something new to do - a new hobby, a new fandom, a new crush even. Take a break from the internet or dive even further in. Get a therapist so you can yell about this asshole that broke your heart. But this person and their BF are just a nest of wasps. Poking at it will only cause further pain.

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diet_poison - 2014-05-03 01:03 (UTC) - Expand

I'd not go public. You'd get 'attention' yes, but most likely you'd be cast as the Lying Hobag who tempted the pure innocent BNF angel to sin. And she can weep about her moment of weakness and be comforted by her boyfriend. A boyfriend who might actually lash out at you. Because as a general rule, people don't want to think the person they love would hurt them, so they'll blame anything and anyone for the hurt but their SO.

Plus, people never stop and think generally cheaters are very very good at spinning webs of lies that make the person they're cheating with feel like it's Different somehow, this time. Of course cheating is awful! But they're not awful, so it's not really cheating. They're going to break up with their SO soon. It's really over and they just haven't made it official. They suspect their SO is cheating on them first. They really love you so very, very much more. They're just going on pity dates with their SO because they don't want to break their heart and anyway they think they might be a bit unstable and it would be dangerous.

As a general rule, villains never go "Muhahaha! I'm SO EVIL. I want to have an affair with you, TO HURT MY SO! You up for some good relationship poisoning?" "HECK YEAH!"