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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-01 07:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #2676 ]


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(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
I hope what you meant is that rape fantasies or role playing can be empowering? Because that is a thing. (Anecdata: most people I know with this kink are former fundamentalists. Their own explanation (if a kink really needs an explanation) is that they internalized sex=bad so hard, it's easier to enjoy if they can pretend that they don't really want it.)
But actual, un-negotiated, nonconsensual rape is always bad and never empowering.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
Well, yes, but in this specific instance we were talking about fiction/fiction writing.

Obviously real life rape is a big fucking no, but in some books, and to some people, it's totally okay in fiction because of the above "I'm so wonderful he can't help himself" fantasies, which are a totally legitimate fantasy to have.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 01:01 pm (UTC)(link)
internalized sex=bad so hard, it's easier to enjoy if they can pretend that they don't really want it

Huh. That... that helps me a lot, actually. Thank you.