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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-01 07:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #2676 ]


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(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
This. Why can't these so-called fantasies ever get the whole "my lips say no but my body says yes" thing right? Can't they at least have the protesting partner flash a come-hither look or a coy smile or any damn thing to show that this is a sexy controlled situation and not one that looks identical in every way to real assaults?

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 05:46 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe because that's actually a kink for some people?

Like, I can understand if you don't like it, but there are plenty of women who DO have a thing for rape fantasies where one of the participants doesn't want it, or where they don't want it in the beginning but come to enjoy it.

It's not an uncommon kink at all.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 06:15 am (UTC)(link)
Right, not giving a rat's arse about how eeeevil kinkshaming is, but that comes right from a place of deep misogyny and sad self-loathing. Own your desires people, instead of having to pretend you were forced in order to enjoy the "dirty" sex as a "pure" woman - because that's where it comes from.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 06:32 am (UTC)(link)
I love it when feminists play the "internalized misogyny" card because they can't accept what's hot to other women isn't hot to them.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 02:28 pm (UTC)(link)
sup radfem

(Anonymous) 2014-05-03 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
No, that's actually not where it comes from, idiot.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 12:47 pm (UTC)(link)
It is most definitely a kink for many -- the issue here isn't that people like it, but that so many works go to great lengths to convince audience after the fact that an encounter really wasn't rape, but did nothing to make it look like anything but. Maybe if the characters would just acknowledge it was an assault? It's still fine and fictional. Otherwise, show your work and make this "they really wanted it" bit clearer.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)
The fact that there's no aftermath is enough for any sensible person to understand the encounter wasn't an assault.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 01:49 pm (UTC)(link)
But when the characters do that people just label it stockholm syndrome because they can't accept a fantasy that's not theirs.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 06:04 pm (UTC)(link)
That would defeat the whole point of the fantasy.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-02 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Why should they have to do that? It's fantasy. They're writing it the way they want for people who will read it and enjoy it that way. They're under no obligation to make it more "realistic" just to satisfy you because the entire point is that it's fantasy and isn't reality.

You sound like you're trying to police other people's fantasies here.