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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-07 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2682 ]


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(Anonymous) 2014-05-07 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I suppose it's possible you're easily influenced, but liking the same thing as your friend does isn't that weird, OP. You're friends, after all. You probably have a lot in common, so it's not that surprising a book or movie might resonate for you in similar ways.

If you're really worried about it, then maybe try to expand your horizons even further. Read more books. Watch more movies. Think about what you like and why you like it. You'll probably feel more secure in your opinions if you do more to develop interests that are separate from your friend's.
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[personal profile] elaminator 2014-05-07 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
+1. (Though there is absolutely nothing wrong with you having similar tastes and thoughts. It isn't exactly abnormal or anything, and as long as you enjoy yourself it shouldn't matter.)
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[personal profile] likeadeuce 2014-05-07 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree with this -- I think it's a very understandable anxiety, but I can't think of many better reasons to explore and enjoy something than to share it with your friend. As long as they don't insult your taste or influence you to dislike or stay away from things you enjoy, I think it's fine!

(Anonymous) 2014-05-07 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
This is good advice for feeling more confident in what you like and don't like. And if it turns out you like something more because your friend had an interesting take on it -- that's not bad; that's just one of the benefits of having friends with good taste and thoughtful opinions.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-05-08 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
You could also try reading/watching/playing something she likes before reading her review/reaction to it.