[ SECRET POST #2682 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2682 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Advice?

[(Anonymous)]

It sounds like you can accurately call this a crush. You don't have to want to have sex with a person to be attracted to them. I do agree that you have to be careful about how you handle it.

As someone who's been in a very similar position (minus the asexuality) and did not act as I should have and did actually end up seriously wounding a close friendship (not to mention destroying the friendship I could have had with the girlfriend), I would really recommend getting some distance between yourself and your crush feelings for a while, if it's intense enough that you're worried. I don't mean distance yourself from your friend, but maybe take a break from shippy fic that reminds you of your friend -- play a really involved game or read something you'd enjoy, but have been neglecting in favor of feeding the crushfire -- and hang out with other friends a little more or work on projects that are just yours.

I hope I'm not projecting too much of my own ish on you, though I probably am.