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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-07 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2682 ]


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Re: Advice?

(Anonymous) 2014-05-08 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
n a nicer way than the above anon explained it, being possessive of your friend is more likely a sign that you're feeling insecure in your friendship with him - possibly because he is in a serious relationship, and the dynamics of your friendship might be changing e.g. he's probably started replying on his girlfriend for emotional support rather than you. Which isn't a bad thing. But might be making you feel less valued as a result.

I would suggest having a deep, reflective session on how you feel about him, his girlfriend, and you. And also what else is happening in your life - maybe you're stressed or feeling bad about something else, and it's manifesting itself in you clinging more strongly to this friendship.

I've been the clingy one in a friendship before, so I really suggest you nip this in the bud now if that is what you're feeling, because it definitely didn't end well for me and it also isn't fair on your friend.