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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-07 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2682 ]


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Re: Advice?

(Anonymous) 2014-05-08 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Speaking as another ace, I don't think you have a crush. You might like a certain ship dynamic in fan-fiction because it's familiar and comfortable to you, not because you have feelings for the person it reminds you of. Most of us are subconsciously attracted to people who are similar to our parental figures, but that doesn't mean we desire sexual relationships with our family.

I agree with the above anon concerning possessiveness: If you're very close to someone, the thought of being replaced can make us panic and cling. As long as you don't let it get out of control, jealousy and/or possessiveness in that situation is understandable. I would consider setting aside some time to hang out with this friend, if only to reassure yourself that you're still a part of each others' lives. You could also try to befriend his girlfriend if you haven't already.

You're not being a moron, OP. You've just worked yourself up over something miniscule, probably because you deeply value your relationship with your friend and don't want to lose it.