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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-07 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2682 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2682 ⌋

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Re: Advice?

[personal profile] solticisekf 2014-05-08 11:26 am (UTC)(link)
If he's your best friend it's normal to be possessive. I think it's like how a family could be possessive of a new gf or bf. I haven't seen it in reality, but it's a theme in movies when a sibling is jealous of a hero's gf, or a kid of their parent's romantic interest. In Psych there was a fraze, I don't think it's a spoiler, it goes something like this:
"Date us, I mean me. If you're ok with my best friend Gus as a part of a deal"

Or when two friends in a movie have a crush on the same person and don't want to fight over it, so neither of them go after this crush.

Sometimes a person doesn't want to share their friend's attention and time with someone else. It's ok as long as this person doesn't interfere. Romantic relationship is usually exclusive and close, maybe that's why you think it could be attraction on your part.

Also fandom ships' dynamics are kinda removed from reality, even without soulmate AUs and a/b/o, so maybe you read fics too much or take them too seriously? Just a thought.