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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-08 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2683 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2683 ⌋

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[personal profile] a_potato 2014-05-08 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm trying to think of something constructive to say to this, because I relate so much to it and have been through it.

BC totally killed my sex drive. My libido's recovering a bit since going off BC, but it still isn't what it was. And my fandom participation nosedived when I stopped having an overriding interest in smut.

So, you're not alone, OP. It's a thing that happens. It's pretty normal, from what I understand.

As far as finding and fitting in with other spaces goes, I have no doubt that you would be able to find a niche that suits you. There's something for everyone out there, from the most libidinous individuals to the least. There are absolutely people who will accept you as you are now. You've just got to take the plunge.

If you discover that it isn't actually what you want, then try to view it as an opportunity to develop new interests. Maybe there's something you've been wanting to try and haven't, because you haven't had the time. Well, now you do have the time. Who knows? You might like whatever you take up even better than you once liked fandom.