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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-09 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2684 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2684 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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07. [WARNING for abuse/child abuse]



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[identity profile] galerian-ash.livejournal.com 2014-05-09 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I wish I could say I was surprised at hearing how you were treated, but I'm not. I'm sorry though, for what it's worth -- and I'm glad to hear you are better now.

Also, I'd like to say that it's not that I don't understand how mental illnesses can fuck with your head, it's... I just don't think it's okay that the OP, however bad I feel for her, should be able to say things like that. She is potentially making a lot of people feel really bad about themselves, and that's my issue with it. I'm sorry she's sick, I really am, but I don't think that justifies hurting other people.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-10 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Thank you for your nice reply.

I was thinking the OP has nowhere else to say this, even though it's running around her head for a lot of the day? There's a reason these are called secrets and that they have trigger warnings.

OP

(Anonymous) 2014-05-10 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
I was thinking the OP has nowhere else to say this, even though it's running around her head for a lot of the day?

Yep.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-05-10 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear that OP. I've been there.

For a long period of time, I was convinced that everyone had these thoughts but for some reason everyone was lying and pretending they didn't. I couldn't understand why it was so terrible to talk about it when it was the truth, and all I could think about. I felt a terrible social pressure to hide how I felt.

Crisis hotlines are great for being able to say these forbidden things out loud to someone. I hope you have some for eating disorders where you live. They're not just for people who are suicidal or who are on the edge. The thing to remember is that they're usually staffed by volunteers with variable skills. If the person on the other end of the phone starts to say anything unhelpful or that will make you worse, or you just don't like them, you can hang up on them quickly, or end the call politely, and then call again and get someone else who will hopefully be better for you.