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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-11 03:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2686 ]


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Re: Controversial opinions

(Anonymous) 2014-05-11 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the ass-kissing of the military is overhyped, all the made-to-order sexualities are excessive and approaching ridiculous, and nothing will convince me that most of the "autistic" kids I meet aren't just undisciplined assholes.

Re: Controversial opinions

(Anonymous) 2014-05-11 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you mean that you dont believe n autism as a condition? Or that you think most of the autistic people you have met are just claiming to be autistic as an excuse?

Re: Controversial opinions

(Anonymous) 2014-05-11 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

I mean that it seems more likely to me that instead of disciplining and teaching their children how to behave like humans, parents seem eager to latch on to any reason that their child has outbursts, and accept/encourage that because "s/he has a condition" rather than "I don't know how to be a parent and I screwed up my kid as a result."

Re: Controversial opinions

(Anonymous) 2014-05-11 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
nothing will convince me that most of the "autistic" kids I meet aren't just undisciplined assholes.

I can understand that, especially as someone who's received an actual autistic spectrum disorder diagnosis from a team of psychologists. I worry that there's a huge increase in self or parental diagnosis of autism, and it's really apparent online. That said, how would you feel if you met someone who was professionally diagnosed and went through years of cognitive therapy to get at least some sort of discipline in their lives? I get that autism is no excuse to be an asshole. I also know from personal experience that it takes a lot of work to temper that, and setbacks can happen.

Re: Controversial opinions

(Anonymous) 2014-05-11 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't worry about it, I've been seeing people claim Oppositional Defiant Disorder a more recently. I'm guessing autism/aspergers is out of fashion, just like ADHD before it, as the go-to (self)diagnosis for being an asshole. Claiming autism was always a lifestyle choice for some folks, and now they are moving on and leaving those with a real diagnosis and disorder a toxic legacy because of the lifestyle autistics.
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Re: Controversial opinions

[personal profile] dethtoll 2014-05-11 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)