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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-11 03:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2686 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2686 ⌋

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Re: NSFW rant thread

(Anonymous) 2014-05-11 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Because I love him regardless, and the alternative is going through life alone. I am not by any means conventionally beautiful, and I am socially awkward. I came to accept a long time ago that I would always be someone's last resort.
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Re: NSFW rant thread

[personal profile] feotakahari 2014-05-11 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I've seen a grotesquely fat bald man in a wheelchair married to a woman who seemed to genuinely love him. I don't think he was her last resort, and if women are almost the same proportion of the population as men, it seems unlikely that women have more need of being last resorts than men do.

Re: NSFW rant thread

(Anonymous) 2014-05-11 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Women are more forgiving of flaws than men in my experience.
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Re: NSFW rant thread

[personal profile] feotakahari 2014-05-11 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not productive or useful for me to get this angry at someone who isn't angry at all. I apologize for letting myself get so worked up, and I'll back away from this topic.

Re: NSFW rant thread

(Anonymous) 2014-05-11 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, for some reason I hadn't realised you were getting worked up. This is something of a complicated subject for me, I genuinely wasn't trying to upset you with my opinions. Please accept my apologies.





Re: NSFW rant thread

(Anonymous) 2014-05-12 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
And having seen your comment below, I can only reiterate my most sincere apologies.

I have had a lot -a *lot* - of poisonous men in my life, starting with several immediate family members.

Sometimes it becomes very hard to escape that mindset. Some days I become entrenched in it, like today.
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Re: NSFW rant thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-05-12 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
Um.

Re: NSFW rant thread

(Anonymous) 2014-05-12 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
I know it's probably really hard to believe, but you are not someone's last resort. You are worthy of love. You have someone who loves you, and he loves you because you're you, not because he couldn't find anyone better.

I sincerely hope that one day you will come to a place where you can believe that. I'm so sorry for the things that you've gone through.