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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-11 03:46 pm

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Re: Controversial opinions

(Anonymous) 2014-05-11 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I also hate that this is "controversial." No violence - including spanking. In fact, leading psychology groups (including the APA, etc) have suggested that spanking is HARMFUL to kids. Which is kind of a no-brainer - you are basically, as a parent, illustrating to your child that violence is an acceptable way to get your point across. Not to mention spanking has not actually correlated with decreasing negative behaviors, but the opposite - children spanked tend to misbehave more often, and there is always a chance of spanking escalating into more serious violence.

It's ridiculous, but to me, shows a parent who doesn't know how to control their kid. Much better form of punishment? Make them do chores. Not only is it non-violent and still not-wanted by children, it also teaches about "making amends" for negative behavior by contributing positively to the household (or society). And it's productive.