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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-11 03:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2686 ]


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diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Controversial opinions

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-05-12 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah it is irrational, and do people really think this? I was spanked a few times as a kid, and I don't resent my parents for it nor did I turn out to be severely traumatized because of it. I still disagree with their decision to discipline myself and my siblings that way in the same sense that I disagree with every parent who does it. But my parents, while imperfect (like all of us) aren't bad people.
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Re: Controversial opinions

[personal profile] making_excuses 2014-05-12 11:59 am (UTC)(link)
Closest thing I came to that growing up was my father who at times held me (hard enough to leave bruises) when we were arguing, which was a stupid thing to do, but he didn't know any better and it isn't like I was damaged by it. I would never do that to my own children, but his reaction came from ignorance and I can't claim that defence.

I also have friends whose parents in extreme cases did slap them a couple of times growing up, and those parents are wonderful nice parents they were just at their wits end and in their minds had no other options.

Then again if I spanked my future children it would be against the law and I could face a jail sentence and have my children taken away from me. As spanking is classified as abuse in Norway, as it should be.